The Homeschool Answer Book with Tricia Goyer

Homeschooling Through December

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A Season for Peace, Presence, and Purpose

December has a way of surprising homeschool parents, doesn’t it? One moment we’re easing into fall routines, and the next we’re juggling math lessons, holiday baking, church programs, and the unspoken pressure to “make the holidays magical.”

But here’s something I’ve learned after decades of homeschooling, adopting seven children, raising ten kids, and navigating caregiving seasons: December doesn’t ask us to do more. December invites us to be more present.

When the calendar fills up, and emotions run high, homeschooling gives us a unique gift—flexibility. We can shift into a slower rhythm, focus on what matters most, and turn December into a month of meaningful connection.

Why December Homeschooling Matters More Than You Think

While the world rushes, homeschool parents can intentionally slow down. This season gives us opportunities to:

  • nurture faith
  • build family connection
  • practice generosity
  • create traditions rooted in Scripture
  • help kids reflect on the year

Your homeschool doesn’t need to speed up in December. Your homeschool needs room to breathe. December isn’t a break from learning. December is heart-focused learning—just expressed differently.

1. Embrace December as Your “Heart School” Month

In my home, “Heart School Month” has become a cherished December tradition. It’s our intentional shift away from heavy lesson plans and toward gentle, soul-shaping rhythms. Instead of rushing through textbooks, we settle into what matters most. 

Heart School often looks like more read-alouds and stories by the tree, more serving together as a family, more unhurried conversations at the kitchen table, and more time in Scripture as we prepare our hearts for Christmas. It also means fewer worksheets and more hands-on learning—simple activities that invite curiosity, connection, and peace.

Over the years, I’ve learned that children may not remember every academic lesson we cover, but they will remember the moments that touched their hearts. They’ll remember the day we baked cookies for neighbors who needed encouragement. They’ll remember the carols sung around the tree, the Advent verses read by candlelight, and the quiet evenings when we slowed down enough to truly listen to one another. These are the lessons that last.

Children remember connection long after they forget curriculum. 💛

2. Gentle December Homeschooling Ideas That Still Count as Learning

December can still be rich in academics—just in simpler, more joyful ways.

✔ Christmas Literature Study: Choose a holiday novel or short story. Discuss themes like hope, courage, kindness, and sacrifice.  Bonus: It builds vocabulary, comprehension, and connection.

✔ Service Projects = Real Education. Deliver treats, visit grandparents, write cards, or donate toys. This teaches:

  • writing
  • empathy
  • communication
  • life skills
  • biblical compassion

✔ “December Life Skills Week”

A favorite in our homeschool:

  • measuring for baking
  • budgeting for gifts
  • planning a holiday menu
  • wrapping gifts (geometry!)
  • organizing rooms before Christmas

December learning shines when activities teach both the mind and the heart. 

3. Release the Pressure to Keep Up With Everything

Friend, if your December feels heavy, you’re not alone. Some years I barely kept up with laundry, caregiving, writing deadlines, and helping my kids navigate emotional moments. December homeschooling looked like short lessons, documentaries, and baking math.

And you know what? It was still meaningful. Because my children didn’t need a flawless plan—they needed a steady mom.

Your calm presence teaches more than the busiest homeschool schedule ever could. 

4. Keeping Kids Focused on Homeschooling When Christmas Is on Their Minds

December excitement is real—and normal. Here’s a simple rhythm that works wonders:

Short Lessons + Holiday Breaks

  • Study 20 minutes
  • Then take a December-themed break
    • read a Christmas chapter
    • drink hot cocoa
    • do a simple craft
    • listen to a Christmas song
    • watch a short video about the Nativity or winter science

The goal isn’t to fight distraction—it’s to redirect it into joy-filled learning. When you flow with December’s energy, your homeschool finds its rhythm. 

As 2025 comes to a close, here is my reminder to you. It’s one I often speak to my own heart: you are shaping souls, not just teaching subjects. You are building a family culture, one intentional moment at a time. You are doing sacred work, even when the days feel messy or emotional. 

Your kids don’t need a magazine-ready homeschool; they need a mom who shows up with love, grace, and presence. December isn’t about doing everything—it’s about noticing the small things God is already doing. And He’s there with you. The greatest lesson is taking time to notice it.

Your Simple December Takeaway

Today, choose:

✔ one thing to simplify, and
✔ one thing to savor.

That’s your December homeschool mission. And that’s enough. Merry Christmas, homeschool friend.  May this season be full of peace, presence, and purpose. —Tricia Goyer

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